Do you know how sad it is to not be sure whether you're a virgin or not? I do for i was sexually abused as a child and that has stuck with me even after it stopped. I am a survivor! I will not be a victim of that cruel man. For all of you out there who have ever been abused in any kind of way, i would like you to know that you are not alone! and if it is still going on you can get help. I found my strength in realizing that i am better than those people and that if i had ended my life they would have won. So i invite all those people to share their stories if it helps them get over the pain or at least relieves them of some of it.